Most people land here because their dating profile isn’t getting the response they expect — even though it looks “fine” on the surface.
Most people land here because their dating profile isn’t getting the response they expect — even though it looks “fine” on the surface.
I’ve been brainstorming a self-portrait storytelling photo session idea and ways I can document my story no matter what it is.
I was engaged about 6 years ago and then removed myself and my son from the relationship because it was becoming volatile and unhealthy. I still have the stupid wedding dress I purchased. I’ve tried to sell it with no luck, so there it sits at the top of my closet. At first I was hesitant and slightly disgusted at the thought of putting it on, but concluded that this was a much better use for it!!!














So, here’s one idea … LET’S DO A TRASH THE DRESS SESSION WITH YOUR DRESS!! 🙂 It could be something beautiful … near a shallow body of water, with your husband, something sexy–like him peeling the shoulder down or unzipping it–without nudity of course 😉
And another idea … Maybe you are divorced and still love your dress … well, we could do something similar to the Idea #1. Or maybe you still have the dress and want nothing to do with it — LET’S TRASH IT!! It could involve paint or whatever else we come up with! 🙂
To see this guy (Chad Fish is his name) and the session he did, click HERE! I would sooooo love to do this for someone!! What women wouldn’t find it sexy seeing her husband or boyfriend doing chores around the house??!! 😉
When you have your photos taken by a photographer you are getting these images in high resolution form to be printed in what ever size you want!! And something else special about having a photographer to take these types of photos for you… YOU GET TO BE IN THEM TOO!
These are just a few ideas to get you started 🙂 I plan to come up with more to share with you all. I hope you will consider documenting something or someone meaningful to you.

I am a photographer and dating strategist specializing in natural-light portraits that feel confident, approachable, and genuinely reflective of who you are. Whether I’m shooting a Dating Photos That Work™ session or a high-level personal branding project, my goal is to create images that are honest, not performative.
My Approach
Rooted in emotional intelligence and over 16 years of experience, my process is designed for the “unphotogenic.” I believe the best photos happen when you feel comfortable enough to be yourself and seen enough to trust the process. A strong image isn’t about vanity—it’s about clarity. It is the first impression that shapes how the world perceives you before you ever say a word.
The Personal Side
My journey includes a decade of single motherhood, entrepreneurship, and a national CBS News feature on the psychology of first impressions. But perhaps my favorite “proof of concept” is my own: I met my husband on Bumble at age 42. I’ve seen firsthand how a strategic, authentic online presence can transform your life and lead to real, aligned connection.
The Relocation (Dallas & Minneapolis)
End of April 2026, my family and I officially relocated to Dallas, Texas. While I am now locally serving the DFW Metroplex with occasional Twin Cities dates and travel by request.
When I’m not behind the lens, you’ll find me with my husband, my son, and our beautifully blended family, soaking up our new Texas life (and probably hunting for the best patio in Dallas).
If you’re here because you’re ready for photos that actually feel like you, you’re in the right place. I’m so glad you found your way here.
April 2, 2016

Shannon O’Malley | Dallas Dating Profile Photographer + Profile Strategist
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