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From dating after heartbreak to growing a brand that feels like you, these are the exact resources I reach for again and again.

Whether you’re rediscovering your confidence, building your photography business, or just craving more ease — start here.

Confidence-Building Resources for Dating, Photography, & Self-Growth

A soul-led library of tools, reads, and rituals — handpicked to help you show up more fully in life, love, and business.

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You know that feeling when something just clicks? These are my go-to tools — the ones that help me feel grounded, creative, and clear.

Whether you’re showing up for a date, a shoot, or yourself — this is where transformation begins.

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Because dating can feel like emotional whiplash — this simple, beautiful PDF helps you process what happened, spot red (and green) flags, and date with intention.

Part self-care, part clarity ritual, all heart.

The Post-Date Reflection Journal

    Free Guides for Confidence, Connection, & Creative Growth

    I’ve been where you are — navigating growth after big life change.
    These freebies were created to help you find clarity and confidence every step of the way.

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    Real self-growth tools without the toxic positivity.

    Tools That Actually Transform


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    Audio affirmations to calm nerves and connect with ease before a first date.

    Your Confidence Ritual Before the First Date


    Get the Guide →

    Quick, soulful rituals for mind, body, and spirit.

    10 ways to practice self-love daily

    Show Me the Gear →

    Want dreamy self-portraits? Start here.

    Self-Portrait Gear Essentials

    Download the Workbook →

    Your reset button in workbook form.

    Self-Love Workbook + Guide

    Send It to My Inbox →

    Dating advice that actually hits home.

    The Heart of Attraction – Newsletter


    Mantras That Shift Everything: The simplest phrases. The biggest internal glow-ups ⟶

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    My Soulful Shelf: Books I Keep Reaching For ⟶

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    Ever feel like your to-do list is running the show?
    This self-care ritual doubles as a creative reset — a small act of calm to reconnect with your inner rhythm.

    Less hustle, more healing. Your peace starts here.

    The Secret to Slowing Down, One Scoop at a Time

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    Behind the scenes, these are the systems that keep everything running smoothly —
    from client management to email magic and beautiful websites that convert.

    Tools That Help Me Run a Beautiful, Soulful Business

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    Effortless email automation + connection with heart.

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    My go-to client system for contracts, invoices, and workflows.

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    Get a free Archipelago membership and save up to 50% on Archipelago's cinematic presets by using my exclusive discount code.

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    Boost Your SEO w/This Simple Website Tweak
    Instead of using a 3rd party link tool, create a hidden page on your website for your social media links (like this one). Keeps traffic on your site longer & tells Google your website is worth visiting—hello, SEO boost!


    Want to go beyond Google SEO? Grab my AI Discovery Checklist to learn how clients find you through AI search.

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    Ever wonder why some photographers and small business owners seem to show up everywhere — even in ChatGPT results?
    It’s not luck — it’s discoverability.

    My free AI Discovery Checklist teaches you how to make your brand recognizable by AI tools like ChatGPT and Google’s new AI search.
    No tech jargon. No expensive software. Just simple, repeatable steps that help you attract more clients who are already searching for what you do.

    If you want to go deeper, explore my full Booked by ChatGPT™ course — where I show you exactly how I became discoverable through AI (and how you can too).

    Get Found by AI — Without Tech Overwhelm

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    Dating Icebreakers

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    Mindset Makeover Kit

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    Master Body Language

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    Start Reading the Room ⟶

    Decode cues, build confidence, and attract better dates

    Build clarity and confidence through journaling and reflection.

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    Meaningful conversation starters that actually work.

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    Feel Confident on Camera

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    Self-Portrait Challenge

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    Self-Portrait Posing Guide

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    Go-to poses that feel natural, confident, and flattering

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    Build consistency and creativity with this guided 30 day self-portrait challenge,

    Simple strategies to ease camera nerves and feel like your true self on screen.

    Curated tools, guides, and goodies to help you grow with intention — in life, love, and business.

    Shop My Favorite Books, Tools, & Resources

    A practical and motivating guide to breaking bad habits, building good ones, and making change stick.


    Atomic Habits

    Pema Chödrön’s wise take on embracing failure as a necessary, beautiful part of growth and becoming.


    Fail, Fail Again, Fail Better

    A powerful guide to quieting the mind and freeing yourself from limiting thoughts so you can live with inner peace.

    The Untethered soul

    Timeless principles for mastering mindset, building strong habits, and becoming your best self.


    the 7 habits of highly effective people

    A blend of inspiration and self-discovery to help you unlock your purpose, power, and potential.


    The 7: Seven Wonders That Will Change Your Life

    Kristin Hannah delivers a gripping, emotional story of friendship, bravery, and the untold legacy of women during wartime.


    The women

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    Go-to poses that feel natural, confident, and flattering—for creatives who want to show up and shine.

    Part memoir, part motivation—Matthew McConaughey shares raw stories, wisdom, and a dash of humor.


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    Change the way you see yourself—boost self-image, confidence, and success through mindset shifts.


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    Learn how to give and receive love in the way it means the most. A relationship game-changer.


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    Create portraits that feel like you — and grow your photography or confidence journey with Shannon Kathleen Photography.
    Serving Minneapolis–St. Paul and expanding to Dallas in 2026.

    Work with a Twin Cities Portrait Photographer & Mentor

    Some of the links on this page are affiliate links. That means, I get a small commission if you purchase through this link. However I make it a point to only share tools and resources I truly love and use. 

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    Whether you're a seasoned photographer or just beginning to explore the art of capturing yourself, this guide is packed with insightful, actionable tips that will elevate your skills. Learn how to convey emotion, manipulate lighting, + frame your shots for maximum impact. Each tip is crafted to help you not only improve your technical abilities but also to deepen your creative expression + personal connection to your art. Sign up now to start transforming the way you see & capture yourself!

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          ✓ Ways to celebrate progress—even when life feels messy

          ✓ Micro-moments of joy, rest, and self-respect you can build into your routine

          ✓ Tips for creating boundaries without guilt

          ✓ Simple rituals

          Grab my free guide:

          10 Ways to Practice Self-Love Daily
          – without burning out or blowing your budget.

          Start giving yourself the same care you give to everyone else.


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          Plan My Trip with Gökotta

          Skip the stress, ditch the extra charges, and finally book the trip you've been daydreaming about.

          With Gökotta Travel, your deposit goes straight to your destination—not a planner’s pocket.

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            Say them in the mirror. Write them in your journal. Save them to your phone. Let these words become your anchor and your reminder:

            • You're growing. You're worthy. You’re doing the damn thing.

            Daily Mantras to Rewire Your Mind & Radiate Confidence


            These printable mantras are your daily permission slip to feel powerful, centered, and unstoppable—especially when life gets loud.

            You’re probably invisible to AI — but you don’t have to be.

            Learn how to make ChatGPT, Google, and AI search tools recognize your brand by name — and send you clients who are already looking for what you do.

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