Most people land here because their dating profile isn’t getting the response they expect — even though it looks “fine.”
Most people land here because their dating profile isn’t getting the response they expect — even though it looks “fine” on the surface.
In today’s visually driven world, learning how to take self-portraits has become an empowering skill that allows you to authentically capture your personal journey. Self-portraiture is much more than snapping selfies; it’s a creative process that can reveal your unique story, personality, and emotions. With the right techniques and mindset, you can confidently express yourself through self-portraits that resonate deeply with your audience. Let’s explore practical tips on how to master the art of self-portraiture and capture your story with confidence.

Every self-portrait should reflect a narrative that resonates with you. Start by embodying a feeling or emotion that aligns with your story. Then, choose a location that enhances this theme, whether it’s a cozy corner of your home or an outdoor backdrop that connects to your journey. Consider the lighting, colors, and background elements to establish a cohesive and inviting scene.
Lighting can dramatically influence your portraits. Make the most of natural light, using soft, golden hour sunlight for warmth or strong midday light for contrast. Incorporate artificial lighting, like LED rings or softboxes, to fill shadows or create highlights. Blending different light sources can help you achieve the perfect balance.

Start from where you are with what you have. No tripod? No problem—get creative with bookshelves, stacks of books, dressers, or anything sturdy. A DSLR or mirrorless camera offers optimal quality, but smartphones are also great for self-portraits. Pair your camera with a makeshift stabilizer and a remote or self-timer, giving you the flexibility to move around. Experiment with different lenses or settings to find the best fit for your vision.
Play with poses that align with the emotions and story you wish to tell. Soft smiles and relaxed poses can convey confidence, while power poses exude strength and determination. Practice in front of a mirror to refine your angles until you find the right match.

Embrace imperfections as you review your shots to understand your patterns and refine your approach. Editing software can fine-tune colors, brightness, and contrast, keeping your photos authentic yet artistically enhanced. Finding a balance between natural editing and creative enhancement will help you achieve the best results while celebrating your unique imperfections.
Still feeling unsure about starting your self-portrait journey?
You may be questioning whether self-portraiture is worth your time or just another passing trend in the photography world.
However, I get it—the hesitation is real. Similarly, like many, you might wonder what hidden value lies in the process. But here’s the secret: self-portraiture isn’t just about capturing your own image; instead, it’s a gateway to profound personal and professional growth.
“If you’re hesitating about joining Shannon’s course, I highly recommend you go for it! Shannon has been a huge inspiration to me. Self-portraits were once uncomfortable and awkward for me, pushing me far out of my comfort zone. Yet, it’s in those uncomfortable spaces that I’ve experienced significant personal growth. With Shannon’s guidance, self-portraiture has become not just a practice but a therapeutic journey, helping me see myself in a new light and become more authentically me.”
“I’ve always struggled with self-portraits, but Shannon’s incredible guidance changed that. Her insights into setups, tips, and tricks have empowered me to trust in my ability to succeed in self-portraiture. I’m excited to keep applying what I’ve learned and encourage everyone to experience Shannon’s transformative approach!”
“Creating self-portraits as taught by Shannon has been fun, fulfilling, and truly amazing. It’s been an empowering experience that I didn’t just do for others, but something I needed for myself.”
“Regularly including myself in photos has become easier over time, thanks to Shannon’s teachings. I’ve even stepped out into public spaces for my shoots! It’s been a fantastic journey of self-discovery and pushing past my boundaries.”
“If you want to master gorgeous self-portraits and feel more comfortable in front of the camera, Shannon’s guidance is essential. Her expertise is packed with invaluable tips that boost confidence and skills.”
“I’m so inspired! I can’t wait to dedicate more time to self-portraits. It’s been a transformative experience that I absolutely loved.”
“Dealing with our perceived imperfections becomes easier with Shannon’s approach. It’s therapeutic, reconnecting me with myself in ways I hadn’t felt in years.”
“I’m loving Shannon’s approach! The way she teaches self-portraiture is inspiring and immensely helpful.”
“I was so inspired by Shannon’s methods that I started shooting self-portraits before even finishing all her materials. Her teaching sparks immediate creativity!”

Hi — I’m Shannon O’Malley.
I’m a Minneapolis-based (soon-to-be Dallas, TX) photographer specializing in online dating profile photography, personal branding portraits, business headshots, and senior sessions. I work with people who want photos that feel natural, confident, and genuinely reflective of who they are — not stiff, overproduced, or performative.
My approach is rooted in natural light, ease, and emotional intelligence. I believe the best photos happen when people feel comfortable enough to be themselves — and seen enough to trust the process. Whether someone is stepping back into dating, refining their professional presence, or marking a meaningful season of life, my goal is always the same: to create images that feel honest and quietly powerful.
With over 15 years of experience behind the camera — and a journey that includes single motherhood, entrepreneurship, and a national CBS feature — I’ve seen firsthand how much impact the right photos can have. A strong image isn’t about vanity. It’s about clarity. It’s often the first impression that shapes how others perceive you — before you ever get the chance to explain yourself.
This blog is where I share insights on photography, visibility, confidence, and showing up with intention — both on and off camera.
When I’m not photographing clients, you’ll usually find me with my husband, my son, and our beautifully blended family — soaking up everyday life here in the Twin Cities (for now). We’ll be relocating to Dallas, Texas in 2026, where I’ll continue offering my signature photography experience for daters, creatives, and business owners throughout the DFW area.
If you’re here because you want photos that actually feel like you, you’re in the right place. I’m glad you found your way here.
May 7, 2024

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