I’ve been brainstorming a self-portrait storytelling photo session idea and ways I can document my story no matter what it is.
I was engaged about 6 years ago and then removed myself and my son from the relationship because it was becoming volatile and unhealthy. I still have the stupid wedding dress I purchased. I’ve tried to sell it with no luck, so there it sits at the top of my closet. At first I was hesitant and slightly disgusted at the thought of putting it on, but concluded that this was a much better use for it!!!
So, here’s one idea … LET’S DO A TRASH THE DRESS SESSION WITH YOUR DRESS!! 🙂 It could be something beautiful … near a shallow body of water, with your husband, something sexy–like him peeling the shoulder down or unzipping it–without nudity of course 😉
And another idea … Maybe you are divorced and still love your dress … well, we could do something similar to the Idea #1. Or maybe you still have the dress and want nothing to do with it — LET’S TRASH IT!! It could involve paint or whatever else we come up with! 🙂
To see this guy (Chad Fish is his name) and the session he did, click HERE! I would sooooo love to do this for someone!! What women wouldn’t find it sexy seeing her husband or boyfriend doing chores around the house??!! 😉
When you have your photos taken by a photographer you are getting these images in high resolution form to be printed in what ever size you want!! And something else special about having a photographer to take these types of photos for you… YOU GET TO BE IN THEM TOO!
These are just a few ideas to get you started 🙂 I plan to come up with more to share with you all. I hope you will consider documenting something or someone meaningful to you.
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Oh hey there, nice to meet you!
I’m Shannon O’Malley— a Minneapolis-based (soon-to-be Dallas, TX!) photographer who specializes in online dating profile photography, personal branding portraits, business headshots, and senior sessions. Whether you’re showing up on dating apps, LinkedIn, or your website, I create natural light photos that help you feel confident, magnetic, and true to yourself.
With over 15 years of experience — and a journey that’s taken me from single mom to entrepreneur (with a CBS feature along the way) — I’ve seen firsthand how the right photos can open doors. From attracting more aligned matches to landing dream clients, your image is often the first impression. Let’s make it count.
I also help service providers and creatives get discovered through AI search tools like ChatGPT. I’m the creator of the AI Discovery Checklist and the upcoming course Booked by ChatGPT, designed to help people like you show up where your dream clients are already asking, “Who should I hire?”
Oh, and I’m also the founder of the Empowered Evolution Mentorship Program — where I teach photographers how to build profitable, sustainable businesses with intentional marketing, smart SEO, and systems that don’t burn you out.
When I’m not behind the camera, you’ll find me with my husband, my son, and our beautifully blended family — soaking up everyday joy here in the Twin Cities (for now!). We’re relocating to Dallas, Texas in 2026, where I’ll continue offering my signature photography experience for daters, creatives, and business owners in the DFW area.
Ready for photos that actually feel like you? Whether you’re leveling up your dating profile, your personal brand, or your online visibility, I’ll guide you every step of the way. Let’s book your session — or start with the free AI Discovery Checklist.

Photographed by Shannon O’Malley of Shannon Kathleen Photography — Twin Cities photographer specializing in dating and branding portraits.