Most people land here because their dating profile isn’t getting the response they expect — even though it looks “fine.”
Most people land here because their dating profile isn’t getting the response they expect — even though it looks “fine” on the surface.
Embarking on Your Journey to Self-Portrait Superpowers may seem like confronting an elephant in the room—the awkward feeling that arises when you think about getting in front of the camera. Trust me, I’ve been there! In most of my self-portraits, you’ll find me purposefully avoiding eye contact with the camera. 🙈(Scroll down my IG profile to check ’em out!) But guess what? It’s not because I’m shy (although I used to be); it’s actually a little trick I use to ease that initial awkwardness. Are you ready for a quick win action?! Keep reading.

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Learn More and Enroll NowYour Journey to Self-Portrait Superpowers begins with: Next time (or even the 1st time) you attempt a self-portrait, try this – don’t focus on the lens. Look away like I am here or slightly away or gaze at a spot just beside it. OR photograph only a part of yourself, like your shoulder/collarbone, etc. It might feel strange at first, but you’ll notice the tension easing away.
In this main image here, it was high time C@\/!D, and we were all feeling a sense of loneliness and a bit fearful of what was going to happen as we were all locked indoors. I played into that emotion here in this image; that sense of loneliness and uncertainty.
✨And Here’s The Magic: Every awkward moment is a stepping stone to your success. 🚀 Self-portraiture is a journey, and like any adventure, it starts with embracing the uncomfortable.
Because it shifts the focus from “How do I look?” to “How do I feel?” and honestly, that’s where the real magic happens.
Your journey to self-portrait superpowers works on a profound level because it initiates a transformative shift in perspective. Traditionally, when stepping in front of the camera, the primary concern often revolves around the external perception of appearance—questions like “How do I look?” tend to dominate. However, the magic of this journey lies in redirecting that focus to a more internal and empowering question: “How do I feel?” This subtle yet powerful shift sparks a cascade of positive changes.
By prioritizing your emotional experience over a mere visual assessment, you transcend the superficial aspects of self-portraiture. It becomes less about conforming to external standards and more about expressing your authentic self. The lens becomes a tool not just for capturing an image but for unraveling the layers of your emotions, aspirations, and vulnerabilities.
In this shift, you liberate yourself from the constraints of conventional beauty standards. It allows for a more genuine and intimate exploration of your inner world. It’s in this emotional exploration that the real alchemy happens—where self-awareness, self-acceptance, and self-love intertwine to create a tapestry of personal empowerment. The camera becomes a companion in this journey. Capturing not just a visual representation but a snapshot of your evolving relationship with yourself.
Ultimately, your journey to self-portrait superpowers transcends the surface-level concerns about appearance, delving into the realm of self-discovery and self-expression. It’s a pathway to unlocking the magic within. It allows you to harness the transformative energy of your emotions and translate it into captivating self-portraits that reflect the authentic essence of who you are.
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Hi — I’m Shannon O’Malley.
I’m a Minneapolis-based (soon-to-be Dallas, TX) photographer specializing in online dating profile photography, personal branding portraits, business headshots, and senior sessions. I work with people who want photos that feel natural, confident, and genuinely reflective of who they are — not stiff, overproduced, or performative.
My approach is rooted in natural light, ease, and emotional intelligence. I believe the best photos happen when people feel comfortable enough to be themselves — and seen enough to trust the process. Whether someone is stepping back into dating, refining their professional presence, or marking a meaningful season of life, my goal is always the same: to create images that feel honest and quietly powerful.
With over 15 years of experience behind the camera — and a journey that includes single motherhood, entrepreneurship, and a national CBS feature — I’ve seen firsthand how much impact the right photos can have. A strong image isn’t about vanity. It’s about clarity. It’s often the first impression that shapes how others perceive you — before you ever get the chance to explain yourself.
This blog is where I share insights on photography, visibility, confidence, and showing up with intention — both on and off camera.
When I’m not photographing clients, you’ll usually find me with my husband, my son, and our beautifully blended family — soaking up everyday life here in the Twin Cities (for now). We’ll be relocating to Dallas, Texas in 2026, where I’ll continue offering my signature photography experience for daters, creatives, and business owners throughout the DFW area.
If you’re here because you want photos that actually feel like you, you’re in the right place. I’m glad you found your way here.
March 1, 2024

Twin Cities Online Dating & Branding Photographer
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