Ever felt that subtle sense of not entirely fitting in, even among those who share your creative spirit? Because I do. This paradox is a dance familiar to many creatives, resonating deeply with our innate longing for belonging.
Join me on a creative journey through self-portraiture, where we explore the complexities of this sentiment—a universal experience among fellow creators. Unveiling the roots of this paradox, we question whether societal expectations once obscured our creative sparks, casting shadows on our unique perspectives.

As I began my own self-portrait practice, I hesitated to claim the title of “creative.” It came slowly, like a whisper over time. But when it finally arrived, it made sense.
That’s the power of self-portraiture—it meets you where you are and grows with you.
Want a gentle place to begin? My Camera Confidence Toolkit was designed specifically for creatives like us. It’s more than preparation—it’s a grounding ritual that helps you feel safe, seen, and fully present in front of your camera.
Creativity isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it shows up as a quiet urge to take a photo, to tell your story, to remember a feeling.
This journey through self-portraiture is unscripted. Some chapters are bold; others are gentle and reflective. But every photo becomes a bookmark in the unfolding narrative of who you are becoming.
If you’re ready to explore this in a safe and supported way, check out the 30-Day Self-Portrait Challenge. Each daily prompt is like an open invitation to show up, play, reflect, and create without judgment.

It’s in the sharing that transformation really happens. As we begin to witness ourselves more honestly, we feel more able to witness others.
To anyone who’s felt like a creative outsider, let me remind you: your story belongs here. Your images matter. The way you see the world adds depth to the creative collective.
Use the tools that support your process. The Self-Portrait Posing Guide helps make each session feel intentional and fluid. No awkward pauses. Just you, expressing and exploring, moment by moment.
Self-portrait photography isn’t just about pictures—it’s a tool for transformation. It lets you explore your identity with nuance and compassion.
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Imagine a community where every image contributes to something greater. That’s what this is. Every time you take a self-portrait, you are not just telling your story—you’re adding color and shape to ours.
Use what you have. Grow slowly. Trust your process.
And if you’re not sure how to begin, remember you’re not alone. The tools I’ve created—like the Camera Confidence Toolkit, the 30-Day Challenge, and the Self-Portrait Posing Guide—are here to walk with you.
In this post, we’ve explored what it means to seek belonging as a creative—especially through the lens of self-portraiture. It’s a journey of seeing yourself more clearly, of telling your truth, and of choosing to believe that your art and your presence matter.
💛 Let your images be the proof: You belong.
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Learning the art of self-portraiture serves as a powerful catalyst for developing & sharpening photography skills while fostering a deeper sense of authenticity. Start today! Do NOT miss this authenticity-boosting challenge!


Oh hey there, nice to meet you!
I’m Shannon O’Malley— a Minneapolis-based (soon-to-be Dallas, TX!) photographer who specializes in online dating profile photography, personal branding portraits, business headshots, and senior sessions. Whether you’re showing up on dating apps, LinkedIn, or your website, I create natural light photos that help you feel confident, magnetic, and true to yourself.
With over 15 years of experience — and a journey that’s taken me from single mom to entrepreneur (with a CBS feature along the way) — I’ve seen firsthand how the right photos can open doors. From attracting more aligned matches to landing dream clients, your image is often the first impression. Let’s make it count.
I also help service providers and creatives get discovered through AI search tools like ChatGPT. I’m the creator of the AI Discovery Checklist and the upcoming course Booked by ChatGPT, designed to help people like you show up where your dream clients are already asking, “Who should I hire?”
Oh, and I’m also the founder of the Empowered Evolution Mentorship Program — where I teach photographers how to build profitable, sustainable businesses with intentional marketing, smart SEO, and systems that don’t burn you out.
When I’m not behind the camera, you’ll find me with my husband, my son, and our beautifully blended family — soaking up everyday joy here in the Twin Cities (for now!). We’re relocating to Dallas, Texas in 2026, where I’ll continue offering my signature photography experience for daters, creatives, and business owners in the DFW area.
Ready for photos that actually feel like you? Whether you’re leveling up your dating profile, your personal brand, or your online visibility, I’ll guide you every step of the way. Let’s book your session — or start with the free AI Discovery Checklist.

Photographed by Shannon O’Malley of Shannon Kathleen Photography — Twin Cities photographer specializing in dating and branding portraits.